The world has always been a judgy place, but now that I’m an adult, it feels SO much judgier…is this just me??
The best I can do is the best I can do. I firmly believe that people inherently do the best they can with what they have and nobody has the right to judge them based on that…nobody.
Parents are always under the eagle eye of other parents (and non-parents, which is worse) to see if they “measure up” as being a “good parent” and having their kids “in control” or “smart enough” by society’s standards.
New employees are judged by veteran employees waiting to see if the newbie will step up or fall on their face…unless you are fortunate enough to work with amazing people who reach out to help, guide and support you (I certainly am)…hats off to those amazing souls in the world. 💜
People are constantly judged if they change their hair, clothing style, gain or lose weight or whatever else others decide to judge them on. (Don’t get me wrong, if people notice a potentially dangerous change in a person, then and only then is it ok to speak up in an attempt to help the other person.)
My point is, don’t let other people dull your sparkle. People will judge no matter what, so whatever you do, do it for YOU and not them…dare to be your badass, beautiful self and let the haters hate…love yourself so you don’t lose yourself. 💗